I don’t trust you. That statement has been said to me, has been said to people by me and is a statement that lives in each one of our brains and is a part of all of our lives. Trust is a part of love, trust is a part of respect. Trust is the basis and foundation for most of the relationships in our lives. If there is no trust, there is, if we are all honest with ourselves, no kind of relationship. I can love someone without trusting them, that I am sure of because I live that every day. I can not, however, trust someone without having some level of respect for them. So, I don’t trust you anymore. It hurts me and it hurts you, but that’s just the way it is. I don’t know how to allow you to regain my trust and I can’t just give it back to you.