I think that Disney gave me a horrible perspective on what love is supposed to be, maybe that is why so many other people's opinions and views on it are flawed.

You do not love someone because they make you happy, you love someone because no matter what an asshole they can be, no matter their problems, no matter their baggage and no matter how much they frustrate you at times, you want to make THEM happy.
That is what love is about.